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Dear Reuben, July 7, 2008

On Jul 3 at 11:19 wrote:
I’ve been seeing a girl for about six months now and I’m totally in love with her. We have heaps of fun together, she’s amazing to be with and the sex is great. The problem is I think I’m more in love with her than she is with me. Sometimes we agree to meet up, but if she’s having a few drinks with her friends first she’ll be really late or just won’t even turn up. I’m fine with her getting on the piss with her mates and having a big night, but at least she could phone or send me a text to let me know. The thing is, I would never be that rude to her. What should I do? Lovesick, Shepeherd's Bush

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Dear Reuben June 30, 2008

On Jun 26 at 16:26 wrote:
I went on a bus tour of Europe with some mates recently and met a boy I really liked. Nothing happened between us cos I have a boyfriend in London and I wouldn’t cheat on him, though I must admit I was tempted. Things haven’t been great between us — that was part of the reason I took a holiday without him. This latest thing just makes we wonder, should I end it now and move on?

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Dear Reuben June 23, 2008

On Jun 19 at 14:51 wrote:
Over a boozy barbecue last week I admitted to my mates that I enjoy masturbating with different lubricants such as baby oil, KY jelly and even butter. My mates all laughed their heads off and said they grew out of that years ago, even though they still masturbated a fair bit — well, the ones without girlfriends, anyway. I ended up copping shit from them for the rest of the night, and since then they’ve been cracking jokes and writing crap on my Facebook wall. It got me wondering — surely I’m not the only one who enjoys using a bit of lube?

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Dear Reuben June 14, 2008

On Jun 12 at 15:48 wrote:
My boyfriend and I have been living together for a couple of years in a house share. Up until now, we’ve split the bills equally and I pay my half of the costs when we travel. However, a couple of weeks ago, he got a massive pay rise and is now earning loads more than me. Since I have a lower-paying job, I reckon it’s about time he coughed up the money and contributed more to our bills and our holidays. Should I expect my boyfriend to pay more because he earns more?

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Dear Reuben June 9, 2008

On Jun 5 at 16:47 wrote:
I work in the kitchen of a busy London hotel and have recently begun a relationship with one of my co-workers. We enjoy each other’s company, but I am concerned that a relationship in the workplace may become complicated. How can I continue seeing this girl without compromising my career? Also, she keeps suggesting we have sex in a vacant room on our lunch breaks, but I think this would be unprofessional, not to mention risky. What should I do?

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